When you think of the male species does it ever dawn on you that they too might have the same feelings as you a (woman) has? I have never before thought or pondered this notion, I was under the impression "men" were the "strong, unbeatable, high-ego, non-emotional, crude" the list can go on and on, of the typical outlook on the standard "man". As I dive into the world and what it has to offer I have found out men are not the insensitive creatures they are made out to be. They actually do have hearts, and emotions just as us "women" do, some and many of the men I have met and know do have flaws, as do women. Why do you think there is such a negative insertion put on the male species? I think that this has happened and continues to happen because when 1 women get betrayed or hurt 10 more women follow behind; it's like when a woman gets up to use the restroom, her lady friends follow. Women always follow in other women's footprints, it's like a sister hood we have. If a man hurts his wife, her 5 Gf’s, 3 sisters, 4 nieces, 5 aunts, and 6 cousins all create a hatred towards that man, and will have a negative outlook on "men" in general because of that experience/situation. Whether those women have had negative experiences with men or not it will either make their opinion on "men" in general stronger, or make them form a very negative one until proven otherwise.
Women sadly forget that yes we are a different sex then men and have different internal and external organs; we are humans and have similar emotions and reactions to the same situations as men!
The men I have gotten to know, and picked their brains a little I have found to be quite emotional to my surprise. More emotional than I am at times! Wouldn't of thought that now would you?
~This blog entry is to create some sort of awareness of the similarities between males and females, and to hopefully help with accountability issues!
If any women or men would like to expand on any ideas or opinions I touched on I would appreciate that very much so!
Ladies this post might come of offense to you, and I have no intention of that happening. I simply published this entry to see what other's opinions are? And if they see something I do not see, or if they agree?
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